Substitute Quits Rather Than Delete Students As Facebook Friends

Carol Thebarge

Carol Thebarge

(Charlestown, N.H.) A substitute teacher quit her job rather than delete  thousands of students from her Facebook page.

Carol Thebarge, 79, has been working as a paraprofessional and substitute teacher for the past 35 years, accepting assignments at 32 different schools.

Today will be my last day at Stevens High,” Thebarge said, in a Facebook announcement. “I was given an ultimatum; to either delete every student from my Facebook page and do not post pictures of them, or be terminated.”

The Union Leader newspaper reports Thebarge said school officials gave her the ultimatum after a math teacher was charged with sexual assault on a 14-year-old girl in his classroom.

Like many school districts, the Claremont School Board policy bans teachers from being “friends” with students on social networking sites such as Facebook.

School Superintendent Middleton McGoodwin said, “In truth, being a caring, lovely woman doesn’t give you immunity to ignore a school board policy that’s designed to protect everyone.”

Thebarge said she started deleting students, but stopped after about 50 when she had students start asking her what they did wrong.

Thebarge said some students have seen her Facebook page as a place where they can send private messages about being bullied or feeling depressed.

Thebarge said she has had a wonderful career and did not want things to end this way.


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